Favorite Finds of 2009! (Part II)

5. Lancome Juicy Tubes Gloss Set ($39.50)

I know what you’re thinking. “40 bucks for some lip gloss?? Hell to the No!” Please, hear me out. Once a year I splurge and buy a lip gloss set. Sometimes it’s by Clinique, sometimes it’s by MAC, it really just depends. However, with that one lip gloss purchase I am set for the next 12 months. I love lip gloss. But it is the one area I have learned that cheaper is not better. To me, cheap lip gloss is sticky, stringy, and just kinda…..gross. So, because of this, once a year, I fork over the cash for the good stuff. I’ve never been disappointed. This Lancome set is by far the best I’ve ever used. The colors are neutral and sexy, and the gloss is super shiny and lasts forever. The 40 bucks was well worth it.

4. Maybelline Great Lash Clear Mascara ($4.99)

I love this mascara. I use it as a base for my regular mascara. I also use it to set my eyebrows after I apply my makeup. It’s fairly inexpensive, and has many uses. I usually apply one coat of clear mascara to all of my lashes (top and bottom) followed by two coats of LashBlast by Covergirl ( to the top lashes, and outer corners of my bottom lashes.) By using the clear mascara as a base, my black mascara goes on smoother and aids in separating and lengthening my lashes even more.

3. Clean & Clear Touch Oil-Absorbing Sheets ($5.29)

I keep a pack of these sheets in my schoolbag, a pack in my purse, and a pack in my car. They are perfect for absorbing oil from my face without removing my makeup. I never have to reapply powder during the day. I just blot my face with these sheets and my makeup looks brand new again. They are a lifesaver!

2. Burt’s Bees Beeswax Lip Balm ($2.99)

I’m the type of person that was born with a stuffy nose. However, even though I suffer from year-round allergies, with the help of this lip balm, I am rarely congested. This lip balm has lanolin, peppermint oil, comfrey root extract, and rosemary extract in it, so when my body heat warms up the balm on my lips, I’m able to breathe in the fumes, and my sinuses instantly open up. This balm is on my lips almost 24 hours a day. I wear it under my lip gloss, and I wear it by itself. I’m addicted.

1. Kiss Everlasting Nails ($5.99 for a full set including the glue & $2.50 for a kit with just the nails)

I know what you’re thinking. “Press on nails? Is she for real?!?” Yep! I’m for real! I’ve been wearing acrylic nails consistently since I was 12 years old. Like clockwork, every two weeks I would go to my local, and sometimes my not-so-local nail shop for a full set or fill in. The words would roll off my tongue so easily, “Full set, solar, American manicure with square-round tips.” It was a mantra. I would spend $30 plus a $2 tip the first week, and then $17 plus a $2 tip two to three weeks later. One day about a month ago, I actually sat down and did the math: my twice a month manicures ran me about $612 a YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pure Madness! So, I immediately started looking for cheaper alternatives for my French/American manicure look that I love so much. After an extensive amount of research I have found and fallen in love with Kiss Everlasting Nails! As you can see from the picture, they have little handles on the nails for easily application. The instructions are easy, and the best part is that they are $2.50 a pack at my local dollar store!!! I have gotten so many compliments on my nails since switching to Kiss. I replace the nails with a new set every Sunday, and after they are applied I paint a clear top-coat on top for added shine. They are THE BEST!! I’ll NEVER go back to acrylics! Oh, BTW- wearing a new set of the Kiss Everlasting Nails every week will run me about $130 a year. That’s a savings of $482! You can’t beat that with a stick!



So, that completes my Top Picks for 2009. I hope you’ve enjoyed my countdown. Merry Christmas, Bellas!

Favorite Finds of 2009!

This year I have been fortunate enough to find many products (both hair and beauty) that have become indispensable to me. So, I thought as this year draws to a close, I should rank them and share them with you. So, now, here is 10-6 of my favorite finds of 2009.

10. Goody’s Ouchless Comfort-Flex Updo Barrettes ($3)

These clips are made of plastic, but are amazingly strong and durable. They are large enough to secure the thickest mane, while still being comfortable. There is absolutely no pulling, snagging, or tension on your hair at all. But, my all-time favorite feature is that it lies completely flat against my head, therefore I can sleep in it and forget that it’s there. I love it!

9. Elf Makeup Brushes ($1-$3)

I discovered these brushes at my local Dollar Store, and I must say, they are amazing!! They are sturdy, durable, and hella inexpensive! I mean they are between 1-3 BUCKS! You can’t beat that with a stick! I searched a 30 mile radius, and managed to find/buy all 12 of the brushes, and a few extras of my favorites! These brushes are well worth the effort to find. They make applying makeup a BREEZE!

8. B&BW “Sleep” Lavender Vanilla Sugar Scrub ($16)

This scrub is an oldie but a goody. I’ve been using it consistently for about 8 or 9 years now. I use it EVERY Sunday night as a part of my weekly spa routine. I use it to exfoliate my entire body. The sugar smoothes off the dead skin, and the sunflower, safflower, sweet almond and jojoba oils leave my skin silky smooth. I go through a jar a month, so using it can get kinda expensive, however I offset the cost by asking for Bath and Body Works gift cards for Christmas and Birthday presents from friends and family that don’t know what to get me. LOL. I rarely have to buy this scrub for myself.

7. LA Colors 12 Color Eye shadow Palette in Traditional ($1)

Yet another Dollar Store find, this palette is by far the most surprising item I found this year. I bought it as a fluke, but I’ve been raving about it ever since. The colors are neutral enough to wear every day, and even though they are a little shimmery, you don’t end up looking like a disco ball by the end of the day. The pigments are deep and concentrated so a little goes a long way. All the women on my Christmas list will be getting one of these palettes in their stockings!

6. BonneBelle Glimmer Bronze in Gold ‘n Glitz ($3)

Yet another oldie but goodie. I first started using this bronzer about 10 years ago. However, about 2 years ago I couldn’t find it anymore. But this summer I stumbled upon it at Wal-Mart. BonneBelle had changed the packaging but it was thankfully the same beautiful gold shimmer dust inside. I use this bronzer on my body, not my face. I sprinkle a little on a huge, fluffy brush, and dust my neck, chest, and arms in a golden, shimmery, fairy dust. It makes my skin look like it’s glowing, and gives me the appearance of a year round island tan.


Stay tuned for my remaining Top Finds of 2009!

Oh, and let me know what you think of 10-6. What are some of your favorite finds of 09?

Product Review- Chi Keratin Mist

Ok, so after a month of preparing for finals, having the flu (regular, not swine), and basically just losing my mind, I now have the time to devote to one of my favorite pastimes, blogging about my seemingly endless product-junkie-ism. Please don't think just because I haven't been posting reviews, that I haven't been buying products. I have. Therefore, without further ado, here is my product review for Chi Keratin Mist:

Even though I've been using this spray for the past month or so, I still feel indifferent about it. The more I use it, the more it seems to be interchangeable with the Aphogee Green Tea and Keratin Spray that I've used intermittingly for the last year or so. What I mean is, nothing about this solution seemed to be particularly......special.

Your Frequently Asked Questions:

*Girl, How Much Was It?      "Rosewater, Dicetyldimonium Chloride, Cocodimonium Hydroxypropyl Silk Amino Acids, Acetamide MEA and Lactamide MEA, Lauryl Pyrrolidone, Panthenol, Propylene Glycol, Diazolidinyl Urea, Methylparaben, Propylparaben, Methylchloroisothiazoline and Methylisothiazolinone, Nettle, Chamomile Extract, Algae, Aloe Vera, Lavender Extract, Rosemary Extract, Parfum, FD&C Yellow 5, D&C Red 33, Zinc Oxide, Titanium Dioxide, Mica, Boron Nitride Powder."

*What Does It Claim To Do?    "CHI Transformation System Keratin Mist is a leave-in strengthening treatment with Cationic Hydration Interlink proteins. Specifically developed to work in conjunction with the CHI line. CHI Keratin Mist is an advanced leave-in spray designed to provide hair with strength, protection and softness, while leaving hair silky and shiny with incredible manageability.
Features and Benefits:
*Leave-in strengthening treatment
*Cationic Hydration Interlink softens and balances hair, locking in moisture
*Reconstructs the inner structure of the hair
*Improves strength
*Adds protection and shine
*Provides incredible manageability "

*Where Can I Find It?    It can be found at any store that sells salon quality hair products, as well as discount stores such as T.J. Maxx and Marshalls.

*Directions from the Container:   "Spray evenly throughout the hair and leave in, proceed with styling."

*How Much Was It?       $7.99 for 12oz. @ T. J. Maxx ( a regular $14.00), it is also available in 32oz for about $30.

*My Personal Review:      
     The first thing that I must say about this spray is that it has a deathly strong, cologney smell that seems to linger FOREVER! Granted, I am sensitive to strong and aggressive smells, but this product truly offends my senses. On the plus side however, the sprayer on the bottle allows for a very wide area to be covered, therefore, I only have to spray maybe 4-6 pumps to get total coverage. I usually use this spray in two ways. The first way is applying it after I apply my creamy leave in conditioner, and before blow-drying. The second way is applying it before I put my wig on, and again after I take my wig off.

     When I use this spray, I am trusting it to do what it says it will do. Meaning, with every use I expect it to protect my hair from heat damage and provide my hair with a small amount of protein. Is it doing its job? So far, so good. Actually, I use this spray as an insurance policy, more than anything else. Even though I can't see any added benefits when I use it, I just rest easier knowing that it's there. Also, the next time I straighten my hair (which won't be anytime soon) I will definitely use this spray and amend this review. I have read raves about its use before flat-ironing.

*My Final Thoughts:   So Bellas, even though I don't notice any added softness or shine, I will continue to use this product until it's gone. However, after it's gone I doubt that I will repurchase it. Aphogee Keratin Spray seems to do just as well for a quarter of the retail price. So what's my recommendation for you? If you want to splurge, or if you find the spray for a good price, you won't be any worse off having tried it. However, if money is tight, or if you want to curb your inner product junkie, when you see the Chi Keratin Mist, just walk on by.

As always, I hope this review was informative and helpful. Let me know what you think in the comment section.

Until Next Time, Be Well Bellas,
-SouthernBella

"Girl, where have you been??"

Hey Bellas!


Thanks to everyone who emailed, wondering where I've been, and more importantly, where the two other product reviews are. LOL! Bellas, I have been under a stack of books for the last month, trying to get ready for Finals Week.  It's a Man Down, Code 10, Situation! (I say in my best Frankie voice.) Seriously, the library has become my second home.

The good news is, after my last Final (which is Friday), I have a month-long break! During this break I will be sleeping, celebrating my birthday (Dec 18th baby!), and cherishing Christmas with my family. Therefore, updates to the blog will be plentiful. I have some wig looks coming up, as well as the promised product reviews. So….please Bellas, bare with me. Real content is coming soon. LOL

**Taking Care of Business**

• I’ve had to enable comment moderation because of spamming. So, there will be a delay when you comment on a post. Sorry about this hiccup. But please don’t let this deter you from commenting, I love reading what you have to say.
• Also, a Big, Fat, “HEY GIRL," to our newest Bella, Kim, from KimmayTube. (Click, to go to her channel, you will find enlightenment and knowledge. Seriously, your hair will thank you, I promise!)

That is all ( I think…),

Until next time,
SouthernBella

Product Review: "The One N' Only Argan Oil"

Hello Bellas,

This review will feature the much talked about, Argan Oil. This product has been so hyped that I was dying to try it, so here's my review:

Your Frequently Asked Questions:

*How Much Was It? $7.99 on sale @ Sally Beauty Supply. It’s $8.99 regular price.

*Girl, What’s In It? Dimethicone, Cyclopentasiloxane, Dimethiconol, C12-15 Alkyl Benzoate, Fragrance (Parfum), Argania Spinosa Kernel Oil, Yellow 11 (CI 47000), Red 17 (CI 26100)

• *What Does It Claim To Do?

"Premium finishing, smoothing and conditioning product
• Non-greasy, alcohol-free formula
• Instantly absorbs into the hair
• Creates brilliant shine without leaving an oil residue
• Reduces drying time and speeds up styling time
• Smoothes cuticle for silky, conditioned and healthy looking hair
• Eliminates frizz and leaves hair more manageable
• Helps protect against damage caused by the environment or heat styling
• Mix with color/chemical processes for enhanced results and added depth to color
• For all hair types
• UV protection
• Compare to Moroccan Oil

One of the world's rarest oils, argan oil is derived from the Moroccan argan tree. Rich in essential fatty acids, Omega 6 and Vitamin E, it is valued for its ability to regenerate and nourish dry and damaged hair.

One 'n Only Argan Oil is a non-greasy, alcohol-free formula that is instantly absorbed into the hair, creating brilliant shine without leaving an oily residue. Smoothes cuticle for the silky, conditioned and healthy looking hair. This precious oil helps protect against damage caused by the environment, chemicals, or excessive heat from stylers, and provides long-term conditioning while reducing frizz, split ends and breakage. Ideal for all hair types, One 'n Only Argan Oil is a premium styling finishing, smoothing and conditioning product that produces consistently silky smooth results."

*Where Can I Find It? As far as I know, the only storefront where you can buy this oil is Sally Beauty Supply, however, online it can be found at http://www.folica.com/, and http://www.houseofbeautyworld.com/.

*Directions From The Container:

"Apply a small amount through damp hair after shampooing. Style as usual. For Protection: apply a small amount to dry hair. Styling and Finishing: Distribute a small amount of oil evenly through clean, towel-dried hair; use heat to style. Distribute a small amount through dry hair to moisturize, reduce frizz and add instant shine. Smoothing and Conditioning: Smoothes the hair instantly, leaving it revitalized with a healthy look and feel. Hydrates, protects, revives and detangles natural hair, wigs and extensions. Color/Chemical Process: Prior to treatment massage a small amount of oil evenly into hair. Do not rinse. Then mix approximately 1/4 teaspoon of oil with the color, highlighting, straightening or relaxer solution and process as usual. One 'n Only Argan Oil increases absorption of product into hair for enhanced shine and depth of color."

*My Personal Review:
First let me say that I tried this oil two different ways. The first way, with freshly co-washed damp hair, I applied a leave-in conditioner, sealed with the Argan Oil, and blow dried my hair in sections on low heat. My hair came out soft and shiny, but somewhat heavy. I think that was due to the leave in conditioner I used.   The second time I used the Argan Oil, again on freshly co-washed hair, it was the only thing I used. I blow dried my hair in sections on low heat, this time my hair was soft, shiny, light, and weightless. I loved it!! But……because of the cones in this product, my hair was coated. I couldn’t moisturize on top of this oil. Nothing would penetrate.

*My Final Thoughts:
I really like this oil. I can only imagine how silky my hair would be if I used this oil to flat iron with. The smell is mild, not at all like the Chi Silk Infusion, however, they have the same consistency. My only objection to this oil is that because of the cones in it I have to use a heavy-duty shampoo to get it off my hair. Sulfates are a must! Because of this, I will only be using this oil from time to time, not very often. (Maybe just the week prior to me clarifying my hair.) Other than that, there are no down sides to this oil. And if you are a frequent shampooer, you won’t have a problem with it at all.

So, Bella’s, have you ever tried this oil? Are you curious to try it? Let me know in the comment section.

Be Fabulous,
SouthernBella

Just a Quick Pic

Hello Bellas,

Here's a pic of me in my new wig. I love her because all I have to do is slick my hair back, put her on, and slide on a headband. It takes less than 5 minutes. You can't beat that with a stick!

BTW- The wig is by Motown Tress, model LG-61, in color 2.

( I hate their wigs don't have names. I call her Lola, for some reason. LOL)

Until next time,

SouthernBella

Wig Wearing Regimen

Hello Bellas!

Talk about low maintenance!! Since I started wearing wigs my regimen is simpler, my product-junkie-ism has decreased DRAMATICALLY, my breakage has ceased, and the overall health of my hair is 100% better!!

Here's my Wig-Wearing Regimen:

SUNDAY NIGHT

1. Shampoo with diluted Keracare Hydrating Detangling Shampoo (once)
2. Deep Condition with Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner (with heat cap for 30 mins)
3. Co-wash and detangle with Aussie Moist
4. Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse
5. Spray damp hair with either: Aphogee Green Tea and Keratin, or Chi Keratin Spray, or Nioxin Thermal Bliss (whichever is closest)
6. Blow dry on cool setting until hair is about 80% dry.
7. Apply Shea butter in sections, part hair down the middle, French braid hair in two braids, pin the ends up, and cover with a satin cap.

MONDAY-THURSDAY MORNING

1. Take off satin cap, and spray hair with diluted Aussie Moist or rub Shea butter over the braids.
2. Gel my edges back with either Eco Styling Gel, or Designer Touch Finishing Gel (which is a pain in the butt to find!), put on my wig cap and my wig and GO!!!

MONDAY-WEDNESDAY EVENING

1. Take off wig and wig cap.
2. Spray braids with diluted Aussie Moist or rub Shea butter over the braids.
3. Put on satin cap, and go to sleep.

THURSDAY EVENING (light protein day)

1. Take down braids and co-wash with Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In (let sit for about 5 mins & rinse)
2. Co-wash with Aussie Moist (let sit for about 5 mins) and detangle with shower comb while rinsing.
3. Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse
4. Spray damp hair with either: Aphogee Green Tea and Keratin, Chi Keratin Spray, or Nioxin Thermal Bliss (whichever is closest)
5. Blow dry on cool setting until hair is about 80% dry.
6. Apply Shea butter in sections, part hair down the middle, French braid hair in two braids, pin the ends up, and cover with a satin cap.

FRIDAY & SATURDAY

1. Either I do nothing with my hair, or I do Thursday's regimen without the protein.

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This may not seem like a low-maintenance regimen, but for me, any regimen that doesn’t involve blowing out my new-growth, and flat ironing my hair, is low-maintenance. I love being a wig-wearer. It’s the perfect protective style for me.

 Oh, if you're interested, this is the wig that I wore last week:

She's a wet and wavy style. I don't wear any of my hair out with this wig, I just slick my hair back, but on my wig cap & wig, and cover the welt with a headband. I love being able to do that! No rollers, or styling needed!

Am I a wiggaholic yet? LOL

Be Well Bella's,
-Southern Bella

P.S- To my new subscribers, WELCOME!!

The Best Detangling Experience of My LIFE!!!

Today, I had the best detangling experience of my life! It was better than after a hot oil treatment, better than after using Joico products, even better than after using my beloved Aussie Moist Conditioner. Ladies, let me tell you, today I fell in love! Here's what happened:

I've been wearing my wig for the last 2 weeks now, and my real hair LOVES the break! Every other day, I co-wash with Aussie Moist, detangle with my shower comb under the shower stream, towel blot, spray on a leave in (either Nioxin Thermal Bliss, or Aphogee Keratin & Green Tea Reconstructor), rough blow dry (on warm and then on cold), apply ORS Olive Oil Moisturizer, and french braid my hair. I have experienced very little breakage, and minimal shedding. This wig has been a great alternative for me.

So, today I decided to do a little experiment, I wanted to add a little protein to my regimen today, but I didn't want to use my Joico products just to co-wash with. So I began digging through my stash. Turns out, ever since I discovered that my hair can't handle a lot of protein, I have been giving my protein conditioners away. Besides my Joico K-Pak products, I didn't have anything else. Or so I thought. There, in the back of my cabinet, I saw a jar of Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioner. I immediately remembered why I tucked towards the back of the shelf. When I used this product in the past, it left my hair hard, stiff, and smelling like rotten coconuts!! At the same time I also remembered that it contained protein, so I decided to use it to co-wash. I really didn't have a choice.

Now comes the RAVE part.........I rinsed my hair in the shower, and liberally applied the Cantu. I massaged it in, and continued with my shower routine. After no more than 10 minutes I rinsed it out while using my shower comb to detangle. THE COMB SLID RIGHT THROUGH!!!!! Ya’ll I am 7+ months post relaxer, my new growth is NO JOKE!! This detangling session lasted about 1 minute! Seriously! From roots to tips took.......less than a minute!! I was, and still am, a little stunned!

I followed up the Cantu with my Aussie Moist, for added moisture. After about 5 minutes I rinsed it out with cool water. Now that my hair is dry, it is soft, moisturized, and strong. Cantu Leave-In and Aussie Moist are now a staple combo for me! They work so well together (for me).

So ladies, if you're like me, and tried the Cantu Leave-In only to have been disappointed, try it as a co-washing conditioner, just remember to follow it up with a moisturizing conditioner since it does have protein in it. I hope your results are as great as mine! Let me know what you think and how it goes.

Be Fabulous,
-Southern Bella

I'm WIGGING OUT!!

Hey Bellas!!

I'd  like to introduce you to my new wig. She is by Beverly Johnson, and she is ADORABLE!!!!

The style is in keeping with the styles that I posted in my previous blog, but my local beauty supply store's didn't have those particular styles, so I had to make due because I wanted a wig right then! I didn't want to wait to order one online and wait for the shipping and processing time.

Here are a few pics of me and my new protective style:

A side view:

Back View:

So Bella's, whatcha think? I cut her shorter because she was looking a little showgirl-ish, but I love her nonetheless!

Be Fabulous,

SouthernBella

Transitioning Update & Big Annoucement!!

Hey Bella's!!


Hope all is going well in your world. School is B-A-N-A-N-A-S, but I'm hanging in there!! Marketing Degree here I come!! Anyhoo, I was about to blow out my new growth yesterday, and I realized that my hair has made a lot of progress. To me, this growth seems to have happened all of a sudden, but since I've been transitioning since March, I was bound to see some definite progress by now. I was so shocked that I grabbed my camera, and took a pic:

I'm so proud of myself!! Transitioning isn't easy, but I haven't regretted it yet! However, the upkeep (shampooing, deep conditioning, blow drying, & flat ironing) is really time consuming......so I have decided to switch it up! I'm getting a WIG!! Yep, I am really stepping out of the box with this one! I'm going wig shopping next week and I’m super excited!

Wigs seem to be the natural progression for me. I like to wear my hair down, so buns and updo's aren't really an option for me. But at the same time, I'm really getting tired of dedicating 4-5 hours every Sunday to doing my hair. Wigs will allow me to protective style, while still being able to wear "my" hair free and flowing.

These are some of the styles I'm thinking about:

I LOVE this one!!

And this one too!!

As you can see, I definitely have a style. I figured that these styles would make blending my real hair in, a little easier (since they are half wigs.) Lace front wigs would be a great option, but I’m kinda scared of the tape and glue element associated with them. Also, I have yet to see a lace front wig in person that looked natural. And since this is my first try at fake hair, I decided that an $18 investment would be for the best, just in case I don't like wearing a wig.


So, Bella's what do you think? What's your wig experience? Any advice?

Be Fabulous & Happy Growing!
-SouthernBella

Product Review- Pantene Pro-V Style Texturize! Texture & Shine Defining Pomade

Hey Bella’s!

First things first, thank you to everyone that has subscribed to my little blog. I really enjoy logging on and seeing that I have a new member. And to the non-subscribers, thanks to you too for being interested enough to visit my page at all. :)

Now.....on to the review!!

Lately I've been searching for a new product to help smooth my edges back. I had been using Cantu Shea Butter Leave In Conditioner, and sometimes Elasta QP Mango Butter, but I HATE the way both of these products smell, so I've been on a mission to find a product with a soft, non-waxy hold, that didn't offend me with its scent. Last week at Wal-Mart I found this pomade by Pantene. I opened it and took a whiff, a light baby powdery scent, nothing too heavy. Into my shopping cart it went. And that brings me to the topic at hand; I bring you the product review for Pantene Pro-V Style Texturize! Texture & Shine Defining Pomade.

Your Frequently Asked Questions:

*How Much Was It?      $3.99 for 1.7oz @Wal-Mart.

*Girl, What's In It?      "Water, Ceteareth-25, BIS Diglyceryl Polyacyladipate 2, PEG 7 Glyceryl Cocoate, Propylene Glycol, PEG 8 Methicone, PEG 7 Hydrogenated Castor Oil, PVP, Polysorbate 20, Panthenol, Glyceryl Sterate, PEG 100 Stearate, Fragrance, Methylparaben, Butylparaben, Ethylparaben, Propylparaben, Isobutylparaben."

*What does it Claim to do?      "Pantene TEXTURIZE! Texture & Shine Defining Pomade is a water-based pomade designed to define hair for chunky and tousled hairstyles. Most effective when applied to dry hair where you create texture with your fingertips. Hair is left shiny and soft to the touch."

*Where Can I Find It?      Walmart, Target, and most drugstores. Basically you'll have to look for this product. I bought it at Wal-Mart, and I've noticed it at Rite Aid and Ulta.

*Directions from the Container:      "Apply to dry hair. Rub a pea-sized amount on fingertips until spread thin. For definition, start at roots, using fingertips until spread thing. or definition, start at roots, using fingertips, pull or twist product through to the ends of selected pieces of hair. se more as needed." BTW- I DON'T use this product this way. LOL

*My Personal Review:

This review is pretty straight forward, before I cross wrapped my hair for bed I put a dab of this pomade on my edges and brushed them back with my boar bristle brush. I then wrapped a satin scarf around my head and I put on a satin cap. (I sleep wild so the cap is for added protection, and if all else fails I also sleep on a satin pillowcase too. LOL)

The next morning my edges were straight, flat, soft, and shiny. I could comb through them if I wanted to, they were just that soft. No waxy build up, and crazy mango shea butter smell, no hard dull hair. Yep, this is some good stuff. Even though the ingredients don't contain the most hair friendly elements, its still water based, and that's all I really care about. It also smooth’s my edges back without me having to let it "set" overnight with a scarf. I could totally use this in the morning and get the same results. I haven't tried using it while doing a bun or a ponytail yet, but I am assuming that the results would be equally satisfying. I really like this pomade, now my only wish is that Pantene doesn't do something crazy like change the formula or discontinue it. Actually, now that I'm thinking about it, I think I may buy 4-5 jars just to be on the safe side. :)

*My Final Thoughts:

This pomade is my new staple for the following reasons:

* The price is right! 4 Bucks ain't bad!
*It's easily available. I get so sick of driving all over the world for my products.
*The smell! No more smelling like a fruit salad!
*The consistency and texture.....it's thick and creamy! It distributes very easily.
*No waxy buildup!
*It's water-based! No flakes or dryness.

So....if you're transitioning like me, or maybe you're just stretching your relaxer and you need a product to help smooth those edges down, try Pantene Pro-V Style Texturize! Texture & Shine Defining Pomade, it really does the trick for me!

Thanks for Reading,

Southern Bella

Speaking of Coconut....Product Review- Inecto Pure Coconut Oil Conditioner

Hello All,

I had some spare time before class one day last week so of course I found myself all up and through my favorite store, ULTA. While I was browsing through the aisles, looking for nothing in particular I came across the words "Pure....Coconut....Oil....Conditioner!" Truly, these are some of my favorite words so I stopped in my tracks picked up the bottle. First I smelled it. Coconut smell? Check. Then I read the ingrediants. Protein free? Check. Then I checked the price. Below $10? Check. In my basket it went. And now,  72 hours later, here is my review for Inecto Pure Coconut Oil Conditioner.

Your FAQ:

*How much was it? $5.99 for 16.9oz @ Ulta

*Girl, what's in it? aqua, cetearyl alcohol, stearalkonium cholride, cetrimonium choride, coconut oil, fragrance, magnesium nitrate, methylchloroisothiazolinone, magnesium choride, methylisothiazolinone, citric acid.

*What does it claim to do? "Smoothes hair & adds shine. Contains 100% Pure Coconut Oil to smooth and nourish dry, damaged hair. Super-rich, yet light formula will leave hair glossy, shiny and superbly soft and manageable."

*Where can I find it? Ulta is the only place that I have ever seen this brand. It is imported from the UK, so you may have to search for it if you don't have an ULTA near you. ULTA for some reason doesn't even sell it in their online store. (Boo!)

*Directions from the bottle: "Massage into damp hair after shampooing. Leave in for 1-2 minutes then rinse thoroughly with warm water."

*My Personal Review:

First I did a quick shampoo with Keracare Hydrating and Detangling Shampoo. After I rinsed the poo out I didn't towel dry my hair, I just squeezed the excess water out and applied the Inecto Conditioner to my hair in sections and pinned it up. After about 5 minutes I rinsed the conditioner out and detangled with my shower comb while using the shower stream to help the comb slide through. The comb slid through like a breeze!! My hair felt soft and moisturized even when it was dripping wet ( if that makes any sense.) I didn't use any leave in conditioner, I wanted to feel how my hair felt without anything else in it. I let my hair air dry overnight in flat twists. When I took my hair down the next morning my hair was soft, bouncy, shiny, and moisturized. Inecto Pure Coconut Oil Conditioner is a KEEPER!

By the way, this conditioner has a white color with a milky, kinda watery consistancy. And the smell is a cross between coconut and baby powder. (at least to me.)

*My Final Thoughts:

I like Inecto Pure Coconut Oil Conditioner more than I like Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Conditioner for the following reasons:

1. I prefer Inecto's squeeze bottle to the Organix bottle. I find it difficult to squeeze the Organix bottle with one hand. The design of the Organix bottle is awkward, especially when you're trying to get the last bit of conditioner out. Cowashing is supposed to be quick, with the Organix Conditioner I am always wrestling with the bottle.
2. The Inecto conditioner has a more natural coconut smell, the Organix kinda smells like imitation coconut extract or coconut candy. A little too.......pina colada-ish. LOL
3.The Price... Inecto is $5.99 for 16.9 oz, the Organix is $6.99 for 13 oz. Nuff Said!!!

So, if you want a moisturizing coconut smelling, yummy, cowashing conditioner, I recommend Inecto Pure Coconut Oil Conditioner. It's great! Bye-Bye Organix!

Product Review- Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Conditioner

Hello Everyone!!

Let me first say that I was leery about buying/trying out this conditioner because it contains whipped egg white proteins. As some of you may know from my Hairlista Blog my hair is protein sensitive. Too much protein and it takes FOREVER to get my hair back in shape. But I was at Rite Aid yesterday, killing some time before I had to pick my dog, Scooter, up from the groomer(my life is SO glamorous! LOL), so of course I found myself on the hair care aisle, smelling conditioners and reading ingredients. Before I knew it, this conditioner: Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Conditioner was in my basket. I reasoned, that since the conditioner only contains 21 ingredients, and the egg white protein is 14th on the list, it couldn't be that bad. My logic was that since ingredients are listed based on the amount of said ingredient in the product, this conditioner only had "a little" protein in it, and therefore it was safe. Ya'll I was REALLY trying to justify using this conditioner, even though it had protein in it, because I'm a sucker for YUMMY smelling conditioners.

Here are some of your FAQ:

*How much was it? $6.99 @ Rite Aid

*How much is in the bottle? 13 oz.

*Girl, what's in it? Water/Aqua , Cetyl Alcohol , Behentrimonium , Cetearyl Alcohol , Cetearyl Glucoside , Glyceryl Stearate , Glycerin , Cyclomethicone , Dimethicone , Jojoba Oil , Panthenol , Silk Amino Complex , Coconut Milk , Egg White Protein , Coconut Oil , Tocopheryl Acetate - Vitamin E , Tetrasodium EDTA , Fragrance , DMDM Hydantoin , Methylchloroisothiazolinone , Methylisothiazolinone

*What does it claim to do?

•"Beauty pure and simple.
•Indulge your senses with this exclusive blend of organic coconut milk to nourish your hair, while ultra whipped egg white proteins add strength and elasticity, along with weightless coconut oils to add hydration and balance.
•Sulfate free.
•Organic coconut milk & oils.
•Why We Love it
◦It's like a trip to the tropics in a bottle.
•Why You Want it
◦The luxuriously creamy, foaming, hydrating formula leaves your hair feeling clean, glowing, softly scented and super soft.
•What's in it For You
◦Organic coconut milk and ultra whipped egg white proteins along with weightless coconut oil to hydrate and nourish your hair as gentle cleansers wash away impurities.
•Not tested on animals.
•Made in USA."

*Where can I find it? Organix products can be found at most drugstores and superstores including: Target, Walmart, CVS, Rite-Aid, Walgreens, etc.

*Directions from the bottle: "After shampooing, apply Organix Conditioner generously to hair, working through ends. Wait 3-5 minutes. Rinse hair thoroughly."

*My Personal Review:

I am perplexed and confused by this conditioner. Here's how I used it. First I shampooed my hair twice with Joico Moisture Recovery Shampoo. I've been using products this week with cones in them since I've been wearing my hair straight, so I needed the sulfates in the Joico shampoo to make sure that the conditioner would be able to penetrate. Usually I use a sulfate free shampoo. Anyway, after I rinsed the shampoo out, I towel blotted my hair and squeezed a generous amount of the Organix Conditioner in my palm and applied it to my hair in three sections. By the way, the conditioner was VERY thick and I found it hard to apply, so to make it easier I ran my head under the water and applied the conditioner after that. The water helped it distribute easier. I then clipped my hair up, and continued with my shower. After about 6 minutes I grabbed my shower comb, unclipped my hair, and proceeded to detangle. Using the stream from the shower head, I rinsed the conditioner out, and combed my hair. The comb slid through like a breeze!!!! I was in shock!! I was literally standing up in the shower saying, " WOW! This is AMAZING!" like a fool. I got no breakage, and maybe 4 shed hairs. Then, while my hair was still soaking wet, I squeezed a dime size amount of the conditioner into my hands, rubbed them together, and applied it to my hair as a leave-in.

Lastly, I wrapped my hair up in a turbie twist. After about 10 minutes, I took the turbie twist off and felt my hair.......it didn't really feel moisturized or soft. I began questioning whether I should have used it as a leave in, and whether or not I needed to get back in the shower and cowash with my beloved Aussie Moist. I decided to wait to see how my hair felt when it dried. So I set my new blow dryer to low heat, high fan and proceeded rough drying my hair (I didn't use a comb or a brush, I was just trying to get my hair dry.) After my hair was dry I set my blow dryer to the cool setting and made sure all of my hair was cool to the touch. ( I read about doing this somewhere, and it really makes my hair feel softer. Rather than just waiting for my hair to cool on it's own.)

Now here is the confusing part.....my hair feels soft, but stiff. It feels moisturized, but a little dry. I'm at a loss.......I mean, my hair doesn't feel bad per say, just different. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing. Will I use it again? Yes. My next cowash I won't use any as a leave in, and see what happens. This is interesting......I always have a definite opinion when I write my reviews, but this one leaves me puzzled.....

To Be Continued.........

OK....it's been a week later, and I have given Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Conditioner another try. College has started again, so goodbye daily cowashing, and deep conditioning 3 times a week. I just don't have the time anymore. Thursday, after I got home from class, I couldn't wait to shampoo and condition my hair. I felt like I was washing the whole week away. It felt wonderful!! I shampooed twice with Kenra Moisturizing Shampoo, which I love by the way, and cowashed once with the Organix Coconut Conditioner. My hair felt great, but it didn't detangle as smoothly as I wanted, so I dumped two palm fulls of Aussie Moist Conditioner on my hair, and the comb slid right through. Now that my hair has dried, it feels soft, but strong, and is Hella Shiny!! I didn't use any leave in conditioner because I wanted to be able to judge how effective the Organix was on my hair. It turns out the the egg white protein wasn't too much for my hair at all. Now, my results might be marred by topping off the Organix with the Aussie Moist, but since this combo gave me soft fluffy results, this is the combo that I'm sticking with.

*My Final Thoughts:

I like this conditioner a lot. I will definitely be rebuying. I think I will be using it in combination with my Aussie Moist, since I got the best results with this method. I wish that it came in a larger bottle. I'm heavy handed with my cowashing conditioners and at this rate I'll be going through 2 bottles of Organix a month, in ratio to 1 liter of my Aussie Moist a month. I think this calls for a coupon. I'll be searching for a Organix coupon before I buy anymore of it. After all, all of this stuff is getting washed down the drain anyway, so I might as well save a few pennies when I can. :)

-Southern Bella

It Just Took 8 Words!

Hello Everyone!!

If you've visited my Hairlista Page this summer you've seen my doomsday hot pink countdown. The countdown is literally counting down the days until I decide if I'm going to try "going natural" or if I am going to succumb to the "creamy crack." The countdown ends tomorrow. But I've made my decision today. But before I get to that, I have make something clear. Relaxers have been very good to me. Since I got my first relaxer when I was 8 years old I've never had a chemical burn, or breakage because of one. The only setbacks (breakage) that I have ever had were due to some overprocessed blond highlights (a la Beyonce), using the wrong/bad products, and just plain ol' laziness and neglect. So, the assumption that only women who have had bad relaxers go natural is totally false in my case.

By the way:

( INSERT RANT ------> I think that relaxers have a bad reputation, when really it's women who don't know what to do to their hair once they get it relaxed, so they either do EVERYTHING or NOTHING, and then they get breakage and blame the relaxer. What kind of sense does that make? Now the movement is, RELAXERS ARE THE DEVIL! No......ignorance is the devil. But until Black women learn how to properly take care of their hair, relaxers will get blamed for every broken hair that falls to the floor. It's kinda unfair when you think about it........ But I digress.........<------RANT OVER!!) LOL!!

I first started thinking about stretching my relaxer after my last one in March 2009. I've told this story many times on Hairlista, but since this was the breaking point for me to try to be self sufficient, I'll tell it again. I went to my stylist of 6+ years for a relaxer. I was sitting in her chair and I decided to ask her for some advice ( something I never did before.) Here is EXACTLY how the conversation went:

Me: "My hair is breaking. What should I do?"

The Stylist: "I don't know. My hair is breaking too."

THE END!!!!!

When I picked my jaw up off the floor, I kindly paid her, thanked her for her services, and vowed to myself that I would never darken her door again. That was 23 weeks ago. Her 8 word response is why I am 23 weeks post relaxer. Her 8 word response is why I took the time this summer to get to know my hair. Her 8 word response is the reason why I know exactly what my hair likes and doesn't like. Her 8 word response is what led me to realize that my natural hair is TOTALLY MANAGEABLE!!

I thank her for those 8 words. Without them, I would still be depending on someone else to do my hair (something I HATED!) This summer I've been experimenting with cowashing, twistouts, spiral sets, clips, and bunning. Anything to help me tame this hair. The more products I tried, the more styles I did, the more I realized that my natural hair has a personality. She can be temperamental and stubborn, but she can also be easy going and versatile. She's interesting and challenging. She's friendly and mysterious. She's high-maintenance and has expensive tastes. She's a lot like me. I like her. I'd like her to stick around so I can get to know her better.

Decision Made! I am officially transitioning to become 100% natural. I'm happy with this decision. I've also decided that I will be a LONG term transistioner. At least 2 1/2 years, maybe even longer. I want my natural hair to be at least and inch past shoulder length before I let go of all of my relaxed hair. So I'll only be cutting about an inch off my ends every 3-4 months or so. I'm happy with this decision also. It will feel more like a true "transition" this way. I'm not in favor of sacrificing my length (a la BIG CHOP), I've worked too hard for it. Letting the relaxed hair go, a little at a time will keep me sane, it will make me feel like I'm really not losing any length at all. I like that idea.

So everybody, that's my story. I'm thankful that I took 3 months to weigh the pros and cons before I decided. I'm also thankful that this decision is 100% my own. And lastly, I'm thankful for the emails and the posts, asking me "Girl have you decided yet?" "Girl, what's taking so dang long?" "Girl you know you're gonna have to change your Hairlista screen name if you go natural." ( my Hairlista screen name is Long&Relaxed, by the way.) LOL! Yep, I'm thankful for a lot.

Thanks for Reading!

-SouthernBella

Product Review- Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner

Hello All!!

This is a product review for the infamous Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner. I bought this conditioner because of all of the great reviews it's gotten on different hair care boards that I frequent. So while I was at Ulta last week I decided to add this to my basket and try it out. All I can say is WOW!!!! I have really been sleeping on this conditioner!!!

Here are some of your Frequently Asked Questions:

*How much was it and where did you get it? I bought this conditioner at Ulta (for some reason they don't sell it in their online store) for $14 for a 10.1 oz container.

*What sizes does it come in? Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner comes in 2 different sizes, the 10.1 oz for $14 and the Liter size for $30.

*Girl, what's in it? Purified Water, Hexadecanol, Stearalkonium Chloride, Cetearyl Alcohol (Emollient), Ceteareth-20, Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein, Panthenol, Isopropylparaben, Benzophenone-4, Isobutylparaben, Butylparaben, Fragrance, FD&C Yellow No.5, FD&C Yellow No.6, FD&C Red No.40, FD&C Blue No.1.

*What does it claim to do? "Improves elasticity and manageability in dry, damaged hair. Wheat proteins moisturize naturally curly and coarse hair. Readily detangles and imparts shine"

*Where can I find it? Kenra products can be found in salons, as well as Ulta, JC Penny salons, and Trade Secret (among other places.)

*What are the directions? "After shampooing, work small amount of product throughout the hair. Leave product on hair for one minute. Rinse with warm water.Additional Uses: Add maximum moisture by applying Moisturizing Conditioner, covering hair with plastic cap and sit under warm dryer for 10-15 minutes."

*My Personal Review:

For full disclosure, my hair is a mixture of 3f-4a, I have been transitioning out of my relaxer since March of 2009, and I am about an inch away from bra strap length. Since I only bought the Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner and not the shampoo, I shampooed my hair once with Joico Moisture Recovery Shampoo. Next, I towel blotted my hair and applied Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner to my hair in sections, I only used a small amount of conditioner in each section. Next, I covered my hair with a plastic cap, and sat under a hooded dryer (set to medium) for 20 minutes. I rinsed the conditioner out with cool water while detangling with my Jillbere Shower Comb, the tangles just slipped right through the comb, I lost nearly no hair at all. Even with my hair being wet, I could feel how moisturized my hair was. I squeezed about 2 streams of the conditioner into a spray bottle, added some water and shook the bottle. I used this as my leave-in conditioner. My hair dried soft, with a sheen, and it felt moisturized and healthy. Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner has a slight coconut smell that fades when the hair dries, and the conditioner itself is very thick with a yellowish color and is very easy to apply. Also it should be noted that this conditioner has Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein as a major ingredient, however I found that without a doubt this conditioner works like a moisturizing conditioner and not a protein based conditioner.

Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner is definitely a KEEPER!!!

*My Final Thoughts

The more I use this conditioner, the more I love it! Anything that can get the 2 different textures of my hair to be moisturized and soft, is worth the $$!! I'll be adding the complete Kenra Moisturizing line to my "MUST BUY list", I'll buy the whole line when Ulta or Trade Secret has a sell. Ha!

-SouthernBella

Appliance Review- Remington T-Studio Ceramic & Tourmaline Blow Dryer

Hello All!

After my old, crappy blow dryer died I began doing research for a new blow dryer that was under $50, and that had tourmaline and ceramic technology. The Remington T-Studio Dryer D-2012 was the dryer I chose. Seriously, it was the best decision I could have made! I bought it at Bed Bath & Beyond, the listed price was $39.99 but I had a coupon (of course) so I paid about $33 for it. The particular bundle that Bath & Body Works sells comes with a paddle brush and a concentrator nozzle instead of a diffuser, that didn't bother me though because I don't have much use for a diffuser.

This dryer isn't as heavy as some that I have used, but it's not exactly "feather-light" either. Thanks to the tourmaline, ionic, and ceramic technology my hair dried in about 50% of the time that it usually takes! That was enough for me to fall in love with it!! Also, because it dries my hair so fast, my arms didn't get tired at all!! The concentrator nozzle is great for blowing out my roots, using a tension-pulling method. Also, it has a cleanable lint trap. That feature was lost on me until I realized how much better a clean blow dryer works compared on an old blow dryer with a dirty-clogged lint trap that can't be cleaned.

Another thing that I like about this dryer is that it isn't very loud at all. It has 2 speeds and 3 different temperature settings as well as a cold shot. I use this dryer primarily on the medium heat setting on high speed. The handle is very comfortable to hold. Also, the dryer is pretty cute to look at, the light pink and grey colors appeal to my girly side. After I use the Remington T-Studio Dryer D-2012 my hair is soft and shiny! Not dried out at all. I LOVE this dryer!!!

So, if you are looking for a new blow dryer that has ceramic, tourmaline, and ionic features, and you don't want to fork over the $85+ for the T3, this is the blow dryer for you!!

-SouthernBella

Hello World!

I am Southern Bella, and this is my first serious attempt at blogging.

I'm really excited to be able to share my opinions and views with others. At the moment, I am very interested in hair care and products. At the beginning of my hair journey I did like so many others, and quickly became a product junkie. After I try new products, I like to write about them so I can keep track of how I felt after using the product. After becoming a member at Hairlista Inc, (member name- Long & Relaxed), an awesome hair care community, I began posting product reviews. I really enjoyed writing them, and thankfully, people actually found them to be helpful. After writing many reviews I began thinking about having a place online to put them all, and also a place were I could post "non-hair" related things that I am interested in. Enter Blogger!

So here I am, and here I'll be. I'll still be posting on Hairlista because I love the ladies there, but from now on, this is my home.

Welcome!!